Monday, December 25, 2006

John-William's Field Trip

As promised, I'll post a couple of pictures from John-William's field trip. We didn't have the adventure that Jackson and I had on his field trip in November, but we still had a good time. We went to an IMAX theatre to see Santa vs. the Snowman. It was a cute movie and the kids enjoyed it. Since that was the field trip, there were really only a few opportunities to take pictures. We did get to watch ourselves on an overhead screen from a camera that was mounted to the front of a train that was set up in the lobby. So, I took a couple of pictures of the train and John-William watching himself as the train passed. There's also one from the theatre of him and me together.

Holiday Gatherings

With the Christmas holidays here (and almost gone), we have been very busy. I haven't updated in a while, so I'll give a brief summary of some of the things we've done and then also post pictures from this morning.

We had a nice Thanksgiving Day that I haven't reported on yet. We always have lunch at my parents' house with my mom's side of the family. My aunt, uncles and their kids and grandkids come for the day and we always have fun. There are usually a few 4-wheelers and a golf cart there and the kids enjoy taking (supervised) rides on those. We also went to Kym and Rod's (Adam's sister and brother-in-law) house that afternoon and ate dinner with them, Adam's parents and grandparents. That was a nice visit and the boys always enjoy spending time with their cousins.

On December 10th, we had lunch with my dad's side of the family for the annual family holiday dinner. My aunts and uncles take turns hosting the dinner at their homes on the farm where I grew up. It's always nice to see the family members that I usually only see once or twice a year and to catch up in person with those I communicate with on a regular basis.

Saturday, December 16th was a Christmas get-together with my mom's side of the family again. Since we gather at my parents' for Thanksgiving, we all go to my aunt's house for Christmas. All of my cousins can't always make it to my parents' on Thanksgiving, but they're usually at my aunt's for Christmas. Most of us have our own children now, so the boys always have a good time playing with their cousins there.

Friday, December 01, 2006

Field Trip Pics

Here's a couple more....

Jackson's Field Trip

Jackson and I recently went on a field trip to learn about Native Americans. The farm that we visited had very interesting information about how Native Americans and the early settlers lived and worked together. The kids learned about trading (did you know the term "a buck" that we use for money really came from a buck -- a male deer skin? When trading, items were worth "bucks" to determine how much would be traded), hunting, growing vegetables, weapons and games the Native Americans played. The children were able to feel real animal skins (cleaned, of course!) and learn about how the Native Americans made their clothing.

















We also learned about some of the things that Native Americans used for music. And, Native Americans used ALL parts of the animal so that nothing was wasted. They even used their feet. These are deer toes that were used to make leggings. When shaken, they made a nice rhythm for dancing. The Native Amerian children would begin with a few "toes" on their leggings and work up to about 500 on each legging as an adult. Those things were heavy and required a lot of length strength to be able to dance with them on.
The kids also learned about games that Native American children would play. There was a tall pole with a cow skull on it (not sure what purpose that had) and they used baskets to try to throw a ball up and over the pole. Here's Jackson with his basket, awaiting his turn. Okay, blogger won't let me upload any more pics. I'll start another post and let you see my last couple of pictures.


Our visit with Gigi

The boys' Gigi flew in on Friday, November 10th. The boys were out of school and Adam was off work for Veterans' Day, so we were able to go to the airport together to pick her up. We had a nice lunch and she spent the rest of the day and night with us. We always enjoy her visits and the boys really love having her here. On Saturday, we had Kym's party and she went home with Kym to spend time with her family. On Sunday, we had lunch at Kym's house with Kym's family, Gigi and Nani and Papa. Here's a picture of Gigi with all five of her grandkids. Isn't it sweet?


Happy (Belated) Birthday Kym!!


On November 11th, we celebrated Kym's (Adam's sister) 40th birthday. Her husband, Rod, had planned a surprise party for her at a private club with family and friends in attendance. I took pictures of everyone there, but unfortunately my camera did not do well with the dim lights. So, I don't have very many pictures to post. But, everyone had a very nice dinner and Kym was pleasantly surprised. Especially when her mother walked up and tapped her on the shoulder to say hi. Kym had no idea she was in town!!


This picture doesn't do it justice, but the view from our room was absolutely beautiful. This is looking out from Red Mountain and it was just breathtaking in person. I took what should have been some very cute pictures of all the kids standing up against the glass, looking out on the city. However, my camera didn't pick them up very well and it's like most of the other pictures -- black with a few dim images. Sorry.

Friday, November 10, 2006

PTO and Singing





We had a PTO meeting last night. Last year, we started having a different grade sing at each meeting to help increase parent attendance. Last night, the 2nd grade was singing. Here are a few pictures of John-William singing.

Workday





Blogger wouldn't upload anymore pics from our workday, so here's some more...




Wood Cutting Day


Last Saturday, we had a work day at my parents' house. The men and boys cut firewood all day. Troy had gotten some trees that were cut off my uncles' property and they've been piled in the yard waiting to be cut up. Troy manned the chainsaw and had help from Tommy at times. Once the wood was cut into the right lengths, then Adam, Matt, Tommy and my dad took turns running the wood splitter. John-William and Jackson helped with that, too. After it was split, the wood had to be taken to the barn (by tractor and 4-wheeler with trailer) and then stacked up for the winter. They all worked hard all day long and then were many sore muscles the next day!!

While the men were working on firewood, Tina and I did lawn maintenance to get everything done until next spring. We took turns using the weed eater and trimmed around the house, pool and shrubbery. Tina trimmed the shrubs and I pulled weeds from the decorative rocks around the pool. We also cleaned up all the limbs that had been cut from the shrubs and made one big pile to be burned. Tommy will enjoy himself burning that!!

John-William, Jackson, Michael and Grady were also there helping us that day. As mentioned before, John-William and Jackson helped run the wood splitter. They all helped in hauling the wood (and enjoyed riding in the trailer back and forth to the barn and around the yard!) and stacking the wood in the barn. They were a lot of help that day!

Oh yeah, I didn't have my camera out early in the day, so I didn't get any pictures of my mom doing her part. She cooked breakfast for those who were there early (that did not include us!) and then cooked lunch for everyone. She made homemade chili and baked a ham for those (Adam and Grady) who don't eat chili. And, she had to clean up after all of us eating those meals, too. So, no pics of her cooking but she worked hard, too!

Gettin' Wiggy With It








When I was posting the Halloween pictures, I forgot about our "wigging out" we had out my parents' house. Everyone except Tina and me tried on the wig that Tommy was wearing when he came in that evening. Since Tina and I both have long, curly hair we didn't need to try on the wig. Plus, it would have messed up our long, curly hair! So, here they are...

Sunday, November 05, 2006

Halloween Pictures

Here they are on character parade:


and before trick-or-treating that night:


Tuesday, October 31, 2006

Happy Halloween!!!

This morning, the boys had their character parade at school. The students can't wear scary costumes, but they can choose a character from a book and dress as that character. They have to carry their book with them in the parade. John-William and Jackson both chose to be knights. John-William has a Magic Treehouse book about knights and was certain he could find one at school for Jackson to borrow. So, they were both knights. Michael was a lion. He walked in the parade with Jackson, but didn't have to carry a book. The kindergarten classes had a pumpkin patch after the character parade and the kids played games, got candy, went on a hayride and then ate hot dogs and played on the playground to burn off all the sugar they had eaten this morning! Michael and I were at the school until after noon today and he enjoyed every minute. He's gotten really comfortable being there now, so he sits with the Jackson and the other kids when books are being read or plays with the blocks or other items that the teachers have in their classrooms. He really enjoyed being outside on the playground with Jackson and the other kids today.

Of course, we went trick-or-treating tongiht, but only to a few houses. We met Tina, Tommy and Trent at my parents' house and the boys got candy there. Then, we went to four houses on our street. We only have seven houses on our street and it's easy to drive by if you don't know it's here, so there aren't usually very many trick-or-treaters that come down this street. But, we have some very kind neighbors who always prepare for our boys and Trent and they make special treats for them. The boys always enjoy going to those houses and seeing what treats are in their bags this year. After that, we went to the Civic Center for the Halloween festivities there. They had moonwalks and games for the kids, hot dogs for dinner and then a candy hunt on the softball fields. They spread thousands of pieces of candy on the outfields and then turn out the lights for the kids to find as much as they can. It becomes a madhouse when those lights go out! The boys all found plenty of candy and each came home with a bag full. And, by the way, more candy is just what I need!! I'm still eating mini bags of M&Ms and miniature Reese's cups left over from John-William's birthday party a couple of weeks ago. Now, I have three bags full of candy!!! Fortunately for me, a lot of the hard candy doesn't appeal to me. I just go for the chocolate! I'm trying to hold back, though. I didn't do a very good job of it today, but I'll start trying again tomorrow. The Civic Center also had a haunted house this year and we went through it tonight. Last night, Adam took John-William and Jackson even though I was worried about how scared they would be. They were brave on the way there and on the way home, but somewhere in between they got scared! Jackson had a really hard time with one scene where there are doctors and body parts and bloody people in the haunted house. From there, he just wanted out. I can't say that I blame him. I knew it was coming and it was still a little spooky. Tonight, Tommy kept Michael and Jackson outside on the playground and Tina, Adam, Trent, John-William and I went through it. They made me lead the group which meant that John-William and Trent were hanging on to me for dear life. At some point, John-William grabbed on to Tina, but that just meant that Trent was pulling on me even harder. He would even start pulling backwards while we were walking and then I had to ease my way through, watching for ghouls and goblins who were jumping out from behind each corner and pull Trent through! I would pull my hands free so that I could check for things around me and push open the next curtain we had to go through and he would just hang on to my waist. At one point, I was trying to pull my right hand out of his grip and he kept hanging on so tight that he broke and bruised my thumbnail! And he went through it last night, too. They say it wasn't as scary tonight because some of the "characters" were busy with other activities going on at the Civic Center. If it wasn't as scary tonight, I can't imagine what Trent was like going through it last night!!

My pictures won't upload right now, so I'll have to try to do it tomorrow. Happy Halloween and good night!

Saturday, October 28, 2006

To Kill a Mockingbird


Adam and I attended the final performance of the award-winning To Kill a Mockingbird tonight. It was performed at a state-of-the-art theatre in the area and it was wonderful!! This production travels all over the country and has even performed it in other countries, as well. It lasted over two hours and it was never boring or dull. It truly was a great performance. They choose members of the audience to be the jury and guess what? Adam was chosen. I'm attaching pictures of his jury summons he was given tonight. They aren't great pictures, but that's what happens when you're taking a picture of something lying on a desk with overhead lighting. But, they're too dark without the lights! We had a nice evening and really enjoyed the performance.

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Updates available!

There are lots of posts today, as I've tried to update on all the things that have happened in the last 6 weeks. They are in backwards chronological order since I started with the oldest and updated from there. That's how the posts would have been had I been updating all along, so I tried to keep them in order. I am going to try to update a lot more frequently with the things that are going on with us, so make sure you check back often!

Fall Festival

The elementary school had it's annual Fall Festival on Saturday. The Fall Festival is put on by the PTO to generate funds for their projects throughout the school year. Once again, I ran the Bake Sale to benefit the playground fund. My fundraising efforts aren't what they were last year when we raised about $15,000 and built a new playground, but I do continue to try to raise funds to continue to make improvements on the playground. We would still like to put an 8-seat swing set out there for the kids and that takes money. So, I run the Bake Sale and all the money raised there goes into the playground fund. Last year was my first year handling the Bake Sale and we made almost $750. This year, I wasn't as involved in it because of dealing with our loss, but I still "ran" it and we still did well. I had more help this year in organizing it and in working the tent on Saturday as well. So far, we've made about $560 for the playground and we have the potential to make a little more as there are still some cookies and goodies at the school and we are hoping that the teachers are buying some of those.

The boys had a great day on Saturday at the Fall Festival. Ninny and PawPaw were there for a while and they walked around and did activities with the kids. The boys all had their hair painted crazy colors and then played Go Fish and guess what? They all came home with a goldfish! Just like last year!! Oh well, goldfish aren't too much work. Grandma and Grandpa came to the Fall Festival, too, and they also walked around with the boys and then bought funnel cake. Yum! My mom also made her famous coconut cake for the Bake Sale and Barbara made coconut cream pie and pecan pie. All those items sold easily. I am so thankful to have family nearby and that they are willing to help with the kids and anything else we ask for!

Post-Op Checkup

Last Friday, we had our post-op checkup with my OB. Even though we knew we weren't going to get any new results from the genetic testing, I was looking forward to what she had to say. I had questions to ask her to try to get information about where to go from here. Let me say that she is very understanding and has a wonderful bedside manner. She's a real person and will show her feelings. That's a great quality for a good doctor. However, she is a bit of a "fast talker" (if you're a Seinfeld fan, you know what I'm talking about) and Adam has a hard time keeping up with what she's saying. Especially when we were discussing technical terms like antiphospholipid anitbodies and the LAC antibody (that's the blood clotting disorder I have). I have to make sure I'm paying attention to everything she says, but I can usually follow her without any problems. Anyway, we discussed the fact that I want to seek a second opinion from another specialist to either confirm or contradict what our existing specialist says. She said she totally agreed with that and gave a wonderful referral for the doctor that I had already chosen. In searching online and through friends, I have gotten two great reviews from this doctor's patients and now three great reviews from other doctors. That tells me I've made the right choice for a second opinion and possible "new" specialist. This doctor is an RE, a Reproductive Endocrinologist. Our current specialist that we've been seeing is an ART doctor, which is Assisted Reproductive Technology. Most of his patients have difficulty achieving pregnancy. Since that hasn't been my issue, I don't always fall under the standard plan for what his patients need. However, he has tried to push us towards that standard plan even though we didn't feel like it was what we needed. I didn't let him push me into anything that I didn't want or need, but I felt the pressure from his office. However, since he is the specialist and also came highly recommended (in fact, most of the online referrals I got were for his clinic) and it was the testing that he performed that revealed the LAC antibody, I stayed with him for treatment. Anyway, my OB said that the new RE would be better able to give me the answers that I'm looking for than she is. I knew that she wouldn't be able to give me a lot of answers about the antibodies and such because she isn't a specialist. She's a regular OB/GYN and when her patients need specialty care, she sends them to someone who can provide it. We had a good checkup, though, and I am looking forward to the consult with the new RE. We did discuss the test results, or lack of, and she said that sometimes infections just occur. She used to work in a lab and said that she's seen doctors work on something for months, taking diligent measures to be careful and sterile and still come in one morning to infected tissue that had to be thrown away and start all over again. She said that this happens sometimes with amniocentesis tests, also. I had never heard of that before, but she's known of it happening. Then, the parents are left with the fact that they risked their pregnancy to get the tests and then nothing could be done. I am still sad that we could not find out what caused our loss, but I know there must be another plan for me. Maybe the results would caused me to make a decision that isn't the best one?

One thing that did impress me about my OB is that when we were discussing the second opinion, she asked if I had requested my records from my ART doctor's office. I told her that I had not because I'm not sure what I'm going to do and should I decide not to leave his care, I don't want there to be a strain there. Really and truly, I don't want them to know that I'm seeking a second opinion because I don't want it to influence anything we're told. So, since my ART doctor had not included a full listing of all the tests that were done on me initially, she offered to request them for me. As my doctor, it's totally normal for her to want those, she said. So, she sent the request to his office and then will make those records available to me. Once again, she went out of her way to assist me. I'm so glad that I was fortunate enough to find this practice ten years ago (thanks Tammy!) and to still be there today.

A little getaway

Last week, Adam and I were able to go to Atlanta for a couple of days. We got there Monday evening and had dinner with Adam's Uncle Mike and Aunt Kathy. We've never had a dinner with just them, so it was very nice to just sit there and talk. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the family dinners with everyone there, too, but we'd never had time with them alone before. Adam had a conference to attend on Tuesday, so I got to sleep in (much needed!) and then we went to the mall and dinner later that day. On Wednesday, we headed home to get the boys. It was a short trip, but it was a very nice getaway and nice to have a little down time.

John-William's Birthday


On Thursday, October 12th, John-William turned 8. My mom (Ninny), Michael and I went to the school and had lunch with John-William. That afternoon, Michael and I took cupcakes to John-William's classroom for snack time. John-William chose a Scooby Doo theme for his party, so we took a cupcake cake (24 cupcakes) that were spray painted orange and had a Mystery Mobile and Shaggy on them. The kids really enjoyed the cupcakes and John-William was very happy that we had been there. That evening, Adam and I were supposed to have a dinner to attend but he had something else come up, so I was able to cook a nice dinner at home and enjoy the whole evening with the birthday boy.

On Saturday, October 14th, we had John-William's birthday party in the park. With all that we've been dealing with, I just wasn't up to having everyone here for the party. So, we booked a pavilion and had his party in the park. The weather was perfect -- the temperature was in the low 70s and it was beautiful and sunny. Unfortunately, some of John-William's friends had a virus and weren't able to make it to the party. But, one classmate who is also a good friend of John-William's was there and his cousins Trent and Grady were there. Christian and Autumn were not able to be there because of illness. We missed them but were able to enjoy the party even without them there. We had cake, ice cream, chips and dip and a few other things and John-William opened lots of nice gifts before going to the playground. He received very thoughtful gifts and even some Auburn stuff (yuck!) and he loved everything. After that, we went to the playground and everyone had a nice afternoon being outside and letting the kids play. It was a very nice day.

Test Results

On Tuesday, October 10th, I called my OB's office to find out if any of our test results had come back from my surgery. I really wasn't expecting the chromosome analysis to be back yet, but I was hoping that the pathology tests were back and I could find out what the results were and exactly what they test for. To my surprise, the chromosome results had come back that day, but there were no results. The sample that was sent to UAB was "contaminated" the report said and no testing could be done. I was heartbroken and sat here crying as I talked to the nurse. She didn't know exactly what that meant, so she talked to my OB and called me back. They didn't know exactly what happened, but my OB was assuming that the sample had developed an infection because the report said, "in spite of treatment with antibiotics and antimicotics" the tests could not be done. My OB said that anything that is made up of cells that divide and grow (tissue) can develop an infection and sometimes that just happens. I was devastated because I was counting on those results to help us to know where we should go from here. See, if the results showed that the baby had a chromosomal defect then that would mean that it would not be likely to happen again. However, if the loss was caused by my blood clotting disorder, then it could happen again. And, I was hoping to find out what happened so we would have some help in deciding what to do. I really want to complete our family with another child, but I can't stand the thought of losing another one in trying to do so. So, test results would have been helpful. However, we will not get any results and now we have to talk to doctors and make an uninformed, or not as informed, decision on our own.

I have more info to add to this with later posts. I'm trying to update in chronological order, though, so it will be in a post about my doctor's appointments.

Open House letter


I'm not sure what's going on with Blogger right now, but it's acting weird and wouldn't let me post the picture of the letter from Open House. So, I'm going to try again and then take a break. I'll do more updates later.